Resilient is the word that has most often been used about Mumbai, but the city is much more than that. It is vibrant, energetic, dazzling, vivacious and multidimensional.
All of us have favourite cities. Bombay — I won’t say Mumbai — is not my most favourite city, but it is certainly one that triggers nostalgia for an era gone by and has the capacity to bowl you over… yet again.
A visit to the megapolis last week reinforced the sheer magic of it. “Resilient” is the word that has most often been used about Mumbai, but the city is much more than that… it is vibrant, energetic, dazzling, vivacious and multidimensional, almost like a woman! But it is also noisy, messy, expensive, chaotic and exasperating. But what strikes you the most about Mumbai is the buzz it generates and the spirit it exhibits, something that Danny Boyle captured so well in his unforgettable Oscar sensation Slumdog Millionaire.
The latest visit took my mind back to my childhood and teen years… when bhelpuri and malai kulfi or, better still, the delectable mango kulfi, at the crowded Chowpathy, were a special treat. And so were the “Victoria” rides on those majestic horse-drawn buggies around Palva, in an era when pollution was unheard of and the night star-studded sky, combined with the rhythmic sound of the horses’ hooves, and prospects of a Dilip Kumar movie at Maratha Mandir the next evening, came together to weave a magic spell of sheer bliss.
Ahmedabad via Mumbai
Those were also days when our ties to our home State of Gujarat and the little town… almost a village… of Sidhpur in Mehsana district were very strong.
Grand-uncles and -aunts showered on us — we were six siblings — the affection of the grandparents who had passed on. Weddings were invariably held in Sidhpur; the women grumbled a little but the men were most delighted. I belong to the Bohra Muslim community, a community of traders, and the men rooted for weddings during the long summer holidays in Sidhpur because it gave them a long break from work. Summer also meant a different variety of mangoes, and delicious hand-churned fresh fruit ice creams, masala aloo and a host of other delicacies.
But what made a trip to Sidhpur even more memorable was that, in those days, there was no Navajeevan Express connecting Chennai directly to Ahmedabad. Flights were, of course, prohibitively expensive. And not only the men, but also the women, who had the bleak prospect of taking charge of the kitchens for two months during a blistering Gujarat summer, were most enthusiastic about taking a three-day break in Mumbai.
We would descend on my mausi (aunt) who lived in a chawl in Parsi Ghali near Crawford Market. She would lovingly prepare delicious meals for all of us, to be followed by basketfuls of ripe and sweet hafoos (Alphonso) mangoes that uncle brought during his lunch break every day. But her most stressful moments came in the mornings during our bath time. Hailing from Madras where water shortage was unheard of, we would splash away, depleting her most precious commodity stored in buckets and other brass and steel containers. “Go easy on the water”, would be her constant refrain!
Falooda vs mango milk shake
Even then, what amazed me was the incredible buzz around her house, as we carefully made our way jumping across little hand carts and keeping clear of little boys carrying several glasses of tea. Abdul Rehman Street was packed with little hardware shops and we walked through it straight to the Badshah Cold Drinks House bang opposite Crawford market, where one agonised over a choice between their trademark falooda which came in bright colours… red, orange, green, et al… topped by a generous scoop of ice-cream and the most delicious, chilled mango milk shake made out of the sweetest of alphonsos.
Sometimes, our wanderings took us to the most palatial of places that Bombay had to offer… the Taj Mahal Hotel at Apollo Bunder. Along with hundreds of star-struck visitors, and consuming endless packets of chana-mamra (moori), we would watch in awe the magnificent edifice and the shiny cars that drove in and out of the place, carrying fancy sahibs and memsaabs.
Fast forward to the present and on every recent visit to Mumbai, I’ve not been able to pass by or step inside the Taj Mahal Palace, as it is called now, without a stab of pain and waves of anger at what those terrorists did to this very iconic symbol of Mumbai, as well as other places during 26/11 and the following days.
For so many reasons, Mumbai is the core… the heart… of India and an attack on this city was a collective attack on India and Indians.
Much more inclusive
But these days one can’t visit Mumbai without ruminating with a pang of regret about how inclusive this city was once upon a time.
The best part about the Bombay of yore was that it was most welcoming of all. Over 40 years ago, nobody talked about the sons-of-the-soil theory and outsiders could walk into the city with stars in their eyes and dreams in their hearts with no questions asked, no discrimination made. Bollywood stars are the most visual public testimony to this characteristic of the city. Whether it was a Yusuf Khan (Dilip Kumar) from Peshawar or a Shah Rukh Khan from Delhi, this city embraced them all.
Several of my mausi’s neighbours in that chawl were Hindus, Christians, Muslims and they exchanged delicacies as well as gossip almost on a daily basis.
That the same cosmopolitan city — in the true sense of the word — even while wearing that label with pride today has been saffronised to a certain extent is heart-breaking. More and more Muslims, and even Christians, are talking about their difficulty in renting or buying properties in certain areas, the latter mostly for their food habits and the former more for their religion than being meat-eaters.
But if you are a foodie, Mumbai is the place for you…. Call them Muslim localities or ghettos… Bhindi Bazaar and Mohammed Ali Road are places I seek out to buy khameer roti and the most delicious breads called lamba or Fakiri pao. And the rates are fakiri (beggarly) too; last year, I bought a few dozen of these diamond shaped tiny breads, paying a ridiculous amount of Rs 8 for a dozen. Pack the sheek kebab from a nearby restaurant, again at some crazy cheap price, and you are set for a most delicious meal on board airlines that serve you atrocious food!
It’s not for nothing that Mohammed Rafi had crooned in CID…. Yeh hai Bombai meri jaan!
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Comments:
When some one talks about cosmopolitanism of Mumbai, I find it very amusing. If cosmopolitanism means having the freedom to live without being disturbed by others, yes Mumbai is cosmopolitan. If cosmopolitanism means knowing the people around you and having a genuine concern for them, irrespective of their religion, caste, and their language, not even 10 per cent of citizens of Mumbai would qualify to be called cosmopolitan. I would still agree with Ms Bhagat’s views that Mumbai is slowly losing its inclusive character. That is perhaps because during the last two or three decades, lacs of people have migrated to Mumbai. They have no stake in Mumbai as a place of permanent abode. Thus core character of Mumbai has rapidly undergone dramatic changes. On the other hand it is becoming more and more difficult for law-abiding citizens to lead a normal life. Mumbai and its satellite cities are rich material for a case study of chaotic urban India provided one can study without prejudices.
It's a nicely written nostalgic article by Rasheeda Bhagat. The author has very well described the spirit of her childhood Bombay, which I can feel immensely being a Mumbaikar myself. Nothing has changed at Bhindi Bazaar, where the time stands still . The picture too goes well with the article and depicts one of the densely populated areas, with a magnificent mosque at the background.
Rasheeda, thank you for this superb piece on the 'Maximum City' which 'Once Was Bombay'.
"A visit to the megapolis last week reinforced the sheer magic of it. “Resilient” is the word that has most often been used about Mumbai, but the city is much more than that… it is vibrant, energetic, dazzling, vivacious and multidimensional, almost like a woman! But it is also noisy, messy, expensive, chaotic and exasperating."
"But it is also noisy, messy, expensive, chaotic and exasperating." - Again, 'almost like a woman!' as some men would love to say? : )
I compliment and congratulate on the remarkable piece scripted on the
city of dreams.This piece reflects very well small town boy migrating
to this great megapolis, where many dreams are made,aspirations
nurtured and also suppressed and shattered.The migrant though lives
the city's resilient spirits in all encompassing way.What a place to
live in and pursue the dream!
I have always been a sort of temp visitor to the town,but always
wanted to go down and peak into the lives of real Bombayiite.I was
apprehensive and sometimes scared too.Your writeup on the City allowed
me to get that desire fulfilled. Thanks a ton!
Vishnu Goel
Misss Mumbai!! you manage staying there for one year... it will steal
your heart and make you long to stay there forever...
Salaaam mumbai and miss you badly :(
I endorse each word of Rasheeda about Bombay (I still prefer that name. Having come from a different origin to Rasheeda, I have already lived here for over sixty years. I came here as a boy of 22 and now my grandson is a graduate. My daughters grew up here, attended college, worked and one of them has come to retirement age. All of us used all the time public transport only. None of us ever experienced any problem - admissions, jobs, security on moving about or any. None of us want to leave Bombay and live anywhere else. I can hardly add anything more to what is said by Rasheeda. Bombay is resilient in every sense of the word in meaning and spirit. I express our indebtedness to this megapolis.
I agree with Rasheeda every bit, but that too is not my favourite city for all the reasons stated in the article. When I look back it was the city which i played in the streets of, it was a city i would have never left for its convenience and it was a city i would have loved to live for long. But year 2000 changed all that for me, because I learned that life is also not about resilent or maximum. I chose recluse and peace. I think i am happy with my choice.
Resilience, magic, energetic! But the best line in the article was
"multidimensional like a woman". What was missing was the mention of
vada pav but the conclusion of CID song mentioned Yeh hai bombai meri
jaan made up for everything.
Prakash kapadia
Dear Rasheeda,Reminiscences are always inspiring and yours was one such.I concur with your adjectives about
Bombay "vibrant,energetic,dazzling,vivacious and multi-dimensional almost like a woman".And you add that the city is also "noisy,messy,expensive,chaotic and exasperating".You must have added "here again like a woman".
Chidambaram Kudiarasu
81/10 Muthukrishnapuram 6th Street
Tuticorin628001
Wow..though I am not a mumbaikar, I still can imagine all things
described about the city by Ms.Rasheeda. I have been to Bombay(will
prefer this to Mumbai anytime!) a few times, mostly for the "Bohra"
priestly functions observed on particular days almost every year, and
have been amazed by how comfortably accommodating the city is! For a
person not living there, Bombay is like a city of dreams, with
anything and everything being accessible. Though the city is losing
its tolerance to outsiders, for me, it will always remain a "fave",
because its the city that calls more than the people.
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